#DTR

DTR, otherwise known as Define the Relationship. It's that awkward moment when you have to face the guy you like and boldly ask him what's going on? Are we friends?....more then friends? Are we JUST friends with benefits? Do you like me? Could you see yourself with me? Are you ready to commit? The question's you begin to wonder, but are so terrified to ask. There come's a time in every relationship, where you have to DTR. Because if you don't, how are you going to know if he want's to be with you? He could want the same thing you do, whether thats just a friendship, or something more. You'd never know...because you were to afraid to DTR. So, ladies just do it. Go up to him, and be brave. Text him, call him, or for some of us who are a little more timid Facebook him. It may seem pathetic, but at least your communicating, and getting your feelings out. We can't always rely on the guy to make the first move, because in all honesty 78% of the time guy's aren't the one's to make the first move. Girl's are. There are those rare boy's who don't care, and will come up to you being 100% themselves. Those guys who aren't afraid to kiss you first. But Those guys don't come along all that often. Boy's are just as nervous, and scared as girl's are. They may not seem it, but they are. So, as much as I'd like to expect boy's to ALWAYS make the first move ...it's not fair to expect something from them that you don't expect from yourself.